Saturday, February 03, 2007

ON PRAYING FOR LOST LOVED ONES

I said this in a previous post: "...we always practice what we really believe." The same can be said in this way: What we really believe governs our actions and attitudes. In no way is this truth more clearly and readily demonstrated than in our attitudes and actions concerning the lost.

As in-errantists we say that we believe all of the Bible is true. Even the unpopular parts like those that describe the sure and certain punishment of those who reject the Gospel of Jesus. However it seems that our actions and attitudes toward the ones who are sure to be the objects of the righteous wrath of God, don't match the horror that we profess to believe, that according to scripture, they are shortly to endure.

Jesus taught that hell (that's a word rarely heard from modern pulpits) is so horrible, that one would be better off to cut off his hand, or foot, or even pluck out his own eye, if through the sins relating to these, he would be cast into hell (Mk.9:43-48). What a terrifying prospect; to think of a place where there is no rest from the torture of eternal fire. Where the mercy of God will never again be experienced, and where the hope of a better tomorrow is always disappointed. It is a friendless and lonely place where their torments are the due reward of a wasted life and foolish rejection of the offer of grace.

This whole thought process became more clear to me last night and this morning as I thought on the wrath that abides on one who is near and dear to me. According to God's Word, the path that she is traveling is the "broad way...that leads to destruction" (Matt.7:13). As I prayed for her, I was rebuked in my spirit for how lightly I have taken the reality of her doom. Do I really believe that hell is a real place? Do I really believe what the Bible teaches about it? Am I really convinced that, at any moment, she could step into the abyss of eternal agony? If I really do believe it, where are my tears? Where are the hours of agonizing prayer for her soul?

Being a Bible believer, I know that there will not be a single soul in hell for whom Jesus died. However, I also know that God often uses the prayers of His people to melt the heart of the sinner. This is why I feel rebuked in my spirit; because, though I know these things, my heart is strangely lethargic, and lacking in the passion that should be the evidence of my knowledge.Especially when it concerns one that I love.

Here is the agonizing question that is tearing at my heart right now: How would I be able to go into my comfortable, climate-controlled house, lay on a soft bed with over-stuffed pillows and go to sleep, knowing that one that is dear to my heart is, at that very moment, screaming in torment?

The time will come when our loved ones will be forever beyond the help of our prayers and our tears for their souls. May God grant that we would have a passion for their souls now, while there is still hope, like we surely will have then, when there is no hope.

6 comments:

Even So... said...

May God grant that we would have a passion for their souls now, while there is still hope, like we surely will have then, when there is no hope.

I like this post, it is definitely worth repeating...but is that sentence above, is this written correctly? Will we be conscious of the torment of others, and in what form will our passion be? I have read where we will be satisfied with God and His justice, but would this be the passion you speak of? Perhaps I am missing something?

Again, I agree we need much more passion that we see now....

Garry Weaver said...

Sorry I didn't make that clear. I didn't mean "then" as in when we are in heaven, but "then" as in if we were to hear of their death now.
Maybe I need to fix that.

Even So... said...

Thanks, Garry...BTW the reason I didn't do the meme was because everyone would think I was just trying to be super spiritual, the book closest to me at that time, and anytime I don't have another in my hand, is the Bible, I literally have it everywhere I go...

Joe said...

gary weaver: Actually, I think your actual point was easily discerned. And appreciated.

Even So... said...

Yeah, Joe, I thought so too, but we need to think of what others might see, to help discern for them, and I was thinking of them...not that you weren't brother...that was why I asked for a clarification, because I can be wrong, and I can learn, and I know that others cannot discern certain things because they are not aware of certain things...Garry is, you are, I hope I am, but we cannot be sure everyone else "gets it"...

Marcian said...

Garry, I appreciate this post. I am trying to keep my tongue in check at the moment. I will not give preference to listening over speaking if I do not believe the tongue is powerful and full of evil as James says. I could say apply this to more areas, but I'm trying to be a woman of few(er) words at the moment.